Subtlety #3: Whether you realize it or not, you are always choosing to what to give a fuck about.
Have you once ever realized that when you are going to a party or date, you tend to notice everything, like how your hair looks? or How does your skin look? and Most likely, we give much importance to How We Dress when attending important events because we care about how we look in front of others; Even though they don’t think about you in the first place!
We give so much thought to our appearance that we’ll take a step to dress that is uncomfortable to wear, and even though we do it because we give a fuck about the looks and care about the appreciation of others rather than feeling good about ourselves. We know even though we are the one who chooses to wear what kind of dress we like but we give so much care about other opinion a lot.
But when we start to get older and realize about our decisions about the life and begin to care about what we feel in the situation becomes important. Then we start to live a life that does not please others or their opinion and everything.
So we’ll start a life that is meaningful to us, and decisions impact one’s life in a good way, which soon leads to a life we always wanted, and that’s what is called maturity. Giving a fuck about things that truly matter.